Being "in love" is a choice

People often talk about “being in love”. They ask questions like “AM I in love?”, “he/she IS in love with me”, etc. What I have learned is that being in love is a choice that we make. Sure there are attractions that come into play. But there is no outside factor that determines whether or not we are in love. It is up to us. And it is a choice. So the next time you are wondering whether you are in love with someone, consider the possibility that you can choose to be in love with that person or not. Who are you choosing to be in love with? Who could you choose to be in love with?