One person can transform a relationship

One person can transform a relationship. I have done it and I have seen it done. It starts and ends with loving and respecting the other person no matter what they do to you. It is pretty hard for someone to continue hating and mistreating you when you always love and honor them and treat them well no matter how badly they are behaving. Pretty soon, if one person comes from love no matter what, the relationship shifts from a downward spiral to an upward spiral.